Individuals
who match this personality disorder type have a negative sense of self,
associated with a profound sense of inadequacy, and inhibition in establishing
intimate interpersonal relationships. More specifically, they feel anxious,
inadequate, inferior, socially inept, and personally unappealing; are easily
ashamed or embarrassed; and are self-critical, often setting unrealistically
high standards for themselves. At the same time, they may have a desire to be
recognized by others as special and unique. Avoidant individuals are shy or
reserved in social situations, avoid social and occupational situations because
of fear of embarrassment or humiliation, and seek out situations that do not
include other people. They are preoccupied with and very sensitive to being
criticized or rejected by others and are reluctant to disclose personal
information for fear of disapproval or rejection. They appear to lack basic
interpersonal skills, resulting in few close friendships. Intimate
relationships are avoided because of a general fear of attachments and
intimacy, including sexual intimacy.
Individuals
resembling this type tend to blame themselves or feel responsible for bad
things that happen, and to find little or no pleasure, satisfaction, or
enjoyment in life’s activities. They also tend to be emotionally inhibited or
constricted and have difficulty allowing themselves to acknowledge or express
their wishes, emotions – both positive and negative – and impulses. Despite
high standards, affected individuals may be passive and unassertive about
pursuing personal goals or achieving successes, sometimes leading to
aspirations or achievements below their potential. They are often risk averse
in new situations.
